Saturday, July 16, 2011
My mom's boyfriend yells at me for the littlest things and makes me cry. How can I tell my mom the whole truth?
My mom's cruel boyfriend yells at me for the simplest things, like if I wear red or black eyeliner to go hang out with my boyfriend and his sister, a boy I'll call Ilia* and a girl I'll call Tatiyana*. They both think the Gork(a strain of punk subculture) and Lolita (a Russian alternative fashion movement) looks are nice. If I go with the Gork look and wear red eyeliner, which my mom is cool with, he insults me with stuff like, "You look like a tramp" and "Ilia* and Tatiyana* are both Communists", and I end up crying. Ilia's mom, a woman I'll call Lucy*, likes the Gork and Lolita looks and could really care less about my looks. I secretly tell Lucy*, Ilia*, and Tatiyana* what my mom's boyfriend does to make me feel bad about myself and I get responses from them like, "Don't listen to him." , "That's not good." , and "He's a real a$$hole". My mom's boyfriend always insults me when my mom is on a business trip or not around to call him out. When he insults me, he gets violent and yells like a tyrranical dictator. When my mom, dad, aunt, uncle, and the rest of my relatives want me to know I'm wearing too muck makeup or don't like what I'm wearing, they say something silly or say ,"Can you please...?" in a polite voice to express so, versus hurling cruel insults at my cousins, my sister, and me. After my mom's boyfriend gets the mean yelling over with, I end up venting to Ilia* ,Tatiyana*, or Lucy* about the situation. Ilia* and Tatiyana* end up beyond pissed, saying stuff like, " Your mom's boyfriend is not your real dad." and "Your mom should kick him out. End of discussion". When I tell Lucy* about it, she says stuff like, "It's gonna be over before you know it, kid." and "I was a teenager too, so I know exactly what it feels like to go through your situation" and I feel better about it. When I try to tell my mom about it, he turns it into something totally untrue by making stuff up. Of course, my mom believes him an punishes me. How can I tell my mom the whole truth wihtout being mean?
Reptarium for Chinese Water Dragon?
I need to upgrade my Chinese Water Dragon enclosure and found a 260 gallon, 2 ft by 2 ft and 6 feet high Reptarium. Is this a good enclosure? It is mesh, I am getting a misting system with 5 misters all the way down and a time to go along with it for humidity. Plus i will have an undertank heater to heat the cocunut fiber and water tub. I have good heating and UVB. I am also getting cimbing vines, along with water drip vines. Also hanging plants, with three hammocks. My CWD is 11 inches snout to end of tail, so i want this cage to last a while. Please give suggestions!
I'm 16 and I need help with my weight can anyone inform me how?
I use to weigh a lot when i was younger and i've lost over 30 pounds and had awesome intense muscular thighs. The only issue i have is my thighs aren't bad but could use help on working on them. They have a little space but are jiggly (Boys make fun of me saying I'm all skin and bones but i have some meet on my thighs..i disapprove their comments) I've tried a lot i eat healthy everyday and i exercise i gain muscle but then it disappears. I eat so healthy i actually count up my calories and get high 500s and low 600. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG THOSE LAST TEN POUNDS ARE KILLING ME!
Is "pay their fair share" just liberal code for "punish the rich with higher taxes so we'll feel better?
Yes. It's Nobody's business to tell another person how they should spend their money. Too many people are skating by on government handouts and not making use of that help. Why work when the government will steal from the rich and pay your bills, right? WRONG!
What is the significance of the degree of protrusion of the primate face?
as primates evolved over time, their lower jaws as well as "snouts" (nasal area) became less protruded. what does this imply? i couldn't find the answer in books or in any other internet references. help!
What kinda puppies are these?
I agree with you. I don't think they even have those two breeds in them. Maybe the lab. I see no chow whatsoever in them. I think they may just be really mutts. But if I would guess which breeds they had in them I say maybe a bit of lab or some type of retriever. Maybe some shepherd mix in them. But to me they look really like mutts. I don't mean anything bad about them. I love mutts. Mutts were always the smartest dogs I've owned. But that's just my opinion.
Credit and loans trouble?
I have a credit score of 726. However, i am not sure how to improve my score. Can anyone help? Also, i applied for a $2500 loan, but it got disapproved. I am in the military as an e4 and make a steady pay check, so i dont understand why i cant get a loan.
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